Answered by Dr. Vandana Patidar

Answered by Dr. Vandana Patidar

Does my past relationship cause anxiety around girls?

Hello doctor,

I have extreme anxiety when I see an attractive girl. I feel like escaping from that place at that moment. I intentionally avoid going out and limit myself to home only to avoid attractive girls, I even stopped watching TV to avoid this. I believe this symptom may have started with a broken relationship I had with a girl 10 years back. I am 35 now but I still have it and it is getting worse, I am not sure if I will ever be able to overcome it. Please help.

07 May 2024 - 1 min read

How to stop imagining fake scenarios and live in reality?

Hello doctor,

I do not know why but I make a virtual world for myself. I always fake things about myself, tell untrue stories. When I remember people, like my ex-boyfriend, I imagine a conversation between me and him that had never happened and I feel happy. I keep imagining all that I wanted to do but have never done. I talk to people in my mind. I meet them, I see them, I laugh and cry in my mind. I am tired of imagining and failing in everything in real life. I even sometimes imagine the conversations with dead people.

06 May 2024 - 1 min read

What is the treatment of sleep walking with OSA?

Hello doctor,

I was diagnosed with OSA and parasomnia/sleepwalking. I have been on CPAP for several months now with success, but still having some episodes at night, where I act out my dreams and I am afraid and run out of the house onto the street. I was also violent and aggressive towards my partner during this time of the last episode, which was two nights ago. She has children that live with us and we are extremely concerned about their safety if I have one of these episodes. I do not drink alcohol, smoke, and try to reduce my stress level. I have been using the CPAP religiously but would like a backup method to suppress these violent episodes that may/may not happen. It is really affecting my sleep, especially since I broke my foot. Please help.

18 Apr 2024 - 1 min read

I do not get a deep sleep during the night. Why?

Hi doctor,

It has been a week now and yet I feel like I do not get enough sleep. I would sleep from 1 AM onwards but tend to wake up every hour and my sleep feels like it is not in deep sleep. I could get a deep sleep only aound morning 5-6 AM and woke up at 10-11 AM. Please help.

17 Apr 2024 - 1 min read

How can a person stop persistent overactive imagination?

Hello doctor,

I am 24 years old. I have over imagination problems since when I was a child. I imagine that I am a winner, and what I want and where I want to go. Still, I am facing these problems in my job, education, and personal relations. I imagine all my favorites, but in reality, it is not what I am doing. I felt guilty about what I thought. Please help. How could I stop these imagination problems?

17 Apr 2024 - 1 min read

Dr. Vandana Patidar
Psychiatry, Psychotherapy

Education

MBBS., MD PSYCHIATRY

Specialties

Psychiatry
Psychotherapy

Specialized Treatments

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